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I wake up before 6:00am, with the alarm. Dress fast, leave the house before the kids come to bed. I could count on two hands, maybe one, the number of times I’ve done that before.
Daylight savings time at least enables me to pull away from the house in the rosy-fingered dawn, and not [...]
The people ignited will never be defeated**
5 Comments Published November 7th, 2008 in APB, On marriage and commitment.Check out what folks did in LA last night:
‘Thousands protest over Prop 8, LAPD on tactical alert,’ photo: Kevin Ballie, from the Blend piece linked below.
** San Francisco Prop 8 Protest •
Civic Center to Dolores Park •
Fri., Nov. 7th, 5:30pm **
**[Other gatherings planned up and down the state today -- Mission [...]
Article of faith
26 Comments Published November 4th, 2008 in Baba familias, On marriage and commitment, Re: the lil' monkey. [Note 1: comment moderation will either not happen, or will happen in my absentia for much of the day Tuesday, since I'll be Getting Out The Vote. My apologies. Not for the GOTV stuff, you know. But the time-delayed moderation.
Note 2: if you're a Californian and can help today, please contact [...]
Prop 8 update the gazillionth: the day before
8 Comments Published November 3rd, 2008 in On marriage and commitment. In keeping with recent LD tradition of scatter-shot, repetitive posts showing a reckless disregard for minimum standards of copyediting or continuity, I offer yet another dispatch for those not able to be spending their remaining day before the election shivering in the windy rain, passing out No on 8 leaflets.
That’s what scads and scads [...]
Tonight’s chat with Pops
14 Comments Published November 2nd, 2008 in On marriage and commitment, Pops.Most every night I talk with my dad on the phone. Nine-thirty, after the kids are asleep and the house is cleaned. Or should be. It’s a little late for him to stay up, but it’s the only time we can be assured of no interruptions on my end. It’s kind of like how I [...]
Weekend Prop 8 update, part deux: All Dog Alert*
5 Comments Published November 2nd, 2008 in APB, Go hetero ally go!, On marriage and commitment.One of life’s gazillion ironies: what’s exacerbating my obsession about this Prop 8 battle — a sense of protectiveness for my kids — is also behind my inability to throw myself into it 110%. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this position.
Ratcheting up that inability (and peppering the whole business with yet [...]
Weekend bonus sh– aw who am I kidding, it’s another No on 8 update
4 Comments Published November 1st, 2008 in APB, Go hetero ally go!, On marriage and commitment, Weekend bonus shot. Where’s the content-free, calming photographic image for the weekend, the Proposition 8-bedraggled regular LD reader might ask?
Gone! Along with all sense of proportion to the world! Which will return in three — count ‘em: 3! — days. Come hell or high water, and today, at least in my home state, it looks like [...]
Oh, the posts, they’re coming fast & furious these days*
1 Comment Published October 31st, 2008 in Go hetero ally go!, On marriage and commitment.So fast, the title doesn’t even give you a CLUE.
But you know, making sense TAKES TIME, and a gal has to put the cutie pie son down for his nap.
First, Mark Morford’s bang-up column in the San Francisco Chronicle the other day: “It’s racism and homophobia, neck and neck, down to the wire. Can they [...]


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