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Moment of realness
7 Comments Published June 18th, 2010 in Anima animus, Re: the lil' peanut, Seraphim/dakini.A quick sketch of the complexity of people.
The boychild and I were at a stationary supply store this morning, getting the nicest congratulations on completing Kindergarten/ congratulations on starting preschool gifties I know to give these kids: spiffy little hardback notebooks and fresh felt-tipped pens with which to fill them. Per usual, the boychild is [...]
Convenient iron-on transfer for babies and toddlers whose parents can’t be bothered to sew homphobic slurs on their kids’ clothing. As seen at Michael’s arts and crafts in Emeryville, CA, a store chock-a-block with fun stuff that my dress-wearing boy was grooving on big time (yarn, ribbons, sewing kits), and a store we’re pretty much [...]
The first in what’s sure to be a fitful spring break travelogue. Who knows — this may be the first and last entry. But right now I got WiFi and an eddy of time as my daughter makes a windsock in the hotel’s kid’s club! While the beloved reconnointers the beach with the boy child [...]
20 questions about lesbian fatherhood
8 Comments Published February 24th, 2010 in Anima animus, Baba familias.Partly in service to the students in the class I spoke to the other day whose online questions I didn’t have time enough to answer in person, and partly in service to the random assortment of you readers who may have asked such questions at one point or another, if goaded to by a class requirement, [...]
For ever and ever and ever
15 Comments Published February 5th, 2010 in Anima animus, Re: the lil' peanut, Seraphim/dakini.The boy and I are driving back from a morning’s peregrinations — hardware store (my idea, natch), bakery (we both agreed, natch), library (his suggestion) — and we were listening to one of his favorite songs on the Free to Be You and Me album: “When We Grow Up.”
It’s sung by Diana Ross, and here [...]
The Tonka truck: a holiday gift from his special cousins. (Who?) In it were a clutch of dollies, which, so far, he has given a bit more attention to. Though he loves the truck.
The dress: mooched from his sister for the day. He said it made him look like “Nina,” whoever that is. Off and [...]
Royal dance
21 Comments Published September 8th, 2009 in Anima animus, Baba familias, Pops, Re: the lil' monkey, Seraphim/dakini.I wanted to caption this picture “Alas, poor Yorick! I knew him well,” but the beloved thought that would be too strange and obscure. Also, if I used the actual Shakespearean line, “Alas, poor Yorick! I knew him, Horatio” and so on, it wouldn’t hook the same way, since we’re all too accustomed to the [...]
Scattered notes from an anniversary
25 Comments Published July 16th, 2009 in Anima animus, Baba familias, On marriage and commitment.Herewith, scattered notes and photos from the beloved’s and my anniversary date (a la the Baba’s Day pictorial), because the main dealie sitting on my shoulders these days still defies direct address, and yet squashes close to flat so much of everything else. Thus making truthful personal narrative somewhat challenging. The “main dealie” to [...]






Lesbian Dad is written by a parent who answers to the name "Baba" and works toward a world in which amor does indeed vincit omnia. 




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