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About

les•bi•an dad n, neologism 1. a. A lesbian or genderqueer parent who feels that traditionally female titles (i.e., “mother”) don’t quite fit, and who is willing to appropriate and redefine existing male ones (i.e., “father”): She was a tomboy when she was a kid, so it’s not surprising she’s a lesbian dad as a parent. b. Often a non-biological parent in a lesbian family, whose role relative to the child in many ways resembles that of fathers.

What it is.

LesbianDad is a personal essay/photography blog about parenthood generally, and lesbian parenthood in particular, with especial attention to the experiences of non-birth and/or butch mums and the many larger questions our unique kind of parenthood opens up. I expect that my own family experiences reflect those of many others; if they don’t, I hope they expand your understanding of family, LGBT or otherwise.

In the interest of being helpful, I started a Glossary; some of the entries there may help clarify some facets of queer parenthood for the uninitiated.

And in the interest of full disclosure, I want to note that I subscribe to the Walt Whitman school of writing process, rather than Gertrude Stein’s. Walt tinkered with what he wrote over and over, past its first and second and umpteen print publications. Gertrude thought: first draft best draft. I will say that whatever ripples of change appear in a piece, subsequent to its first posting, are usually along stylistic and le mot juste lines, not substantive ones. And I finally leave well enough alone after a day or two.

I did a post about the genesis and development of this blog and how I write it here: The political is personal.   I did a post of loose notes about how I photograph my kids here: Feeds self yogurt, effortlessly.

Since this little craft launched, it has collected a few nods of recognition which, in a fit of humility, I have demoted from big fat Home page button to modest little About page link:

The most valuable award, of course, is that of your attention, right here, right now. So thank you, gentle reader.

What it isn’t.

LesbianDad isn’t a source for breaking news or commentary on it. Even if I subscribe to — and aspire to demonstrate, on a regular basis — the feminist adage that the personal is political.    Blogospherically speaking, I look to places like Mombian and Pam’s House Blend for breaking news and analysis of particular interest to lesbian parents, and I Blame the Patriarchy and Katha Pollitt for rapier, feminist commentary on issues of the day. I can’t say I won’t fulminate about events of the day, but I’m just saying. You’ll read it here second, or third. Or fifth. You know.

Who is this Lesbian Dad?

ld-mitkids-@HMPlazaI come by my parenting chops by virtue of a daughter (since September 2004) and a son (since January 2007), both carried and birthed by my beloved. I come by most of the rest of what goes into this blog by virtue of some book-learning (BA: Berkeley, English; MA: Minnesota, American Studies & Feminist Studies), some teaching at both universities (American Studies, Women’s Studies, Composition, Pedagogy), and sundry activism hither and yon.

I’ve written about my parenting journey elsewhere in print, and cross-post most many weeks at LesbianFamily.org. As of January 2009, I became a Contributing Editor at BlogHer, where I expound on topics parental once a month in their Cribsheet column. After I clear the gauntlet of our son’s infancy early toddlerhood, I intend to contribute to Daddy Dialectic and the Family Equality Council blog as well, if they’ll still have me.

Join in!

For the moment it’s just me prattling on, but I extend an open invitation to others to join the conversation as guest contributors — gals, guys, queer, straight; the only filter would be for thoughtfulness and graciousness. If you’re interested, please write me at [info at lesbiandad dot net]. Meanwhile, you’re welcome to comment on anything; I just ask that you register first. Worry not: I won’t share your email with anybody, anyway, anyhow. It simply enables me to preview comments so I can nix the spam, which is all I’ve had to nix. I’m proud to say that since the inception of this thing, I’ve never had a belligerent or bellicose comment.   Gives one some faith in human nature.  That, or it’s instructive of the editorial impact of the loss of anonymity.  Either way, thank you for reading.

page last updated: 02.28.10 | photo credit: JPB

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