Guy and buildings, 5th and 41st, New York, NY.
Took this one for me boy, who loves him a nice bow tie.
Guy and buildings, 5th and 41st, New York, NY.
Took this one for me boy, who loves him a nice bow tie.
Intrepid campers, Olema, CA.
We took a camping trip a few weekends back. A micro-trip: one overnight, left town Saturday afternoon after work, came back Sunday night. Camped out in the brother-in-law’s camper van. Stayed in one of those commercial RV park dealies, because of course the whole thing was spur-of-the moment and nothing at a state campground was free. At least in our state. But lord love us we went.
The beloved and I were both in foul states of mind, en route. Stressed, sad. Neither of us has made appreciable headway in our respective work/life arm wrestling matches. Balance, we each feel confident, is on the horizon. But at the moment the horizon line remains tipped.
I mean really? Is any commentary even needed?
This was the first Amazon review of Julianne Moore’s new kids’ book in her Freckleface Strawberry series (this one: Freckleface Strawberry: Best Friends Forever). I learned of the book whilst reading a post at Dominique Browning’s Slow Love Life blog: “A Two-Mom Couple Confronts Noisy, Rude Questions: Julianne Moore Has Some Answers.”
So quite naturally I bopped over via the link to check out the book. And see what greeted me? Tautological homophobia. Self-cancelling phrase. Ignorance, ignorant of itself.
If any of y’all are registered Amazon reviewers and interested in buying and reviewing Julianne Moore’s book, I’m sure it would improve the discussion juuuuuust a bit. I have already decided where our family’s next kid’s book purchase is going.
Twilight trampoline jumpers, Berkeley, CA.
It was a crepuscular time of day, this particular one an extremely beautiful version of it. Filled with the bittersweet of the ending of one thing and the possibilities in the beginning of the next. All in a twilit season: summer’s ending–you can feel it–and winter’s sending its feelers out. This evening was unseasonably warm, though, and so the children had to be out in it.
After dinner, the they carefully ushered unicorns from the back of their cousins’ house to the courtyard between the houses. I was told their names were Sarah, Rosie, and Twilight. I was also warned that they’re spooked by: “odd bodkins,” “creaking, crackling noises,” and “flash photography.”
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Babbling
I am pro-babble. This is not a news flash for old chums and family, who have grown to tolerate (or flee! as the case may be) my propensity to lard on the words. Verbose. Prolix. Loquacious. That’s me. Why say something once when you can find two or three ways to repeat the same idea, I sez! Repeatedly!
But this week I’m pro-Babble: the capital-B kind. Two different juries of my peers gathered by that website have seen fit to honor what I’ve been doing online with recognitions. [Point of info: Babble is a widely-read resource website "for a new generation of parents."] The honorifics (and the attendant challenge I feel to retroactively actually earn them) couldn’t have arrived at a better time, relative to the ebb and flow my work life. For the past nine months it has been gushing, rather than flowing, and dadgum it I think it’s about to ebb for the first time since I started it. Enter, stage left, in the after-work hours: much-neglected writing life!
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