Archive | October, 2009

Hosanna! And praise be to Liz Henry!

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“2005 Kaboom,” from Studio H (Chris)’s photostream onFlickr.

That shero Liz Henry tracked down them durn rogue sub-pages, lassoed ‘em,  and brought ‘em back into the pen uninjured. (Just sneaked into this movie theater after your other one, lookin’ for a free double bill? This’ll catch you up.)

Then as her horse ambled off into the sunset,  its tail absently swishing the flies off its arse, she tugged in the reins, pushed her Stetson back on her head, swivelled around in the saddle, said the equivalent of

“Aw, shucks ma’am, ah was only jest doin’ muh job. Give a whistle if y’all need anything else. Elsewise, there’s other ladies in other towns what need muh help. Ahm sure y’all understand.”

And with a click click to her trusty steed, she was on her way.

As I watched her noble figure become smaller and smaller in the distance, and heard the music swelling up inexplicably all around me (this music), a small, crystalline tear of gratitude trickled down my face. And under my breath I whispered, “Thank you BlogHer, for sending that woman my way.”

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Action punchlist for this fall’s statewide elections

Direct from the Courage Campaign website (thanks to a reminder from hekebolos at DailyKos in “Action: Help the nationwide fight for LGBT equality” ):

Progressives are closer than ever to a victory on health care reform. As 2009 comes to a close, we’ve moved forward on other issues. But what’s looming up ahead could be a disappointment.

On Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009- less than a week away- there will be critical votes on on LGBT equality in three states: Washington State, Maine, and Michigan. With so much attention devoted to other issues in the political realm, bloggers have banded together to ensure we don’t forget the ones with a firm deadline next week.

For that reason, we’ve joined with these three campaigns to put together a summary of who, what, and how. If you haven’t heard of these campaigns, and/or haven’t done anything yet to support them, please consider helping out. If you are a blogger please feel free to grab this content whole cloth and use it for your blog posts. Scroll down to the bottom to grab the formatted HTML to drop into a post.

Last year, as Obama and Democrats were winning across the country, we lost marriage equality in California. It was a bittersweet victory. Pitch in to make sure 2009 isn’t a bittersweet year. Take action to support LGBT equality TODAY.

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The beloved just closed her youth music theater company’s production of A Chorus Line, and with that the swing shift part of our family life is slowly, gratefully, opening back to normal. Two of us to do (and trade off doing) what drove a menopausal monotasking Baba half-way up a tree to do solo for too many weeks. With increasingly unhappy kids. Again, I have no idea how single parents do it.

I was already half-way up a tree in the first place, so being driven the rest of the way up it located me at the tippy-top, where the view might be pretty, but the balance is precarious.

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Things aren’t been easy. Life-wise and blogularly, and particularly at the points — few, if significant — where those two lines converge. Those who write narrative nonfiction and draw heavily on autobiography are always in danger of writing themselves into a corner: it’s the Faustian bargain one strikes to gain access to the ever-present gold mine of material. But a corner of some sort is where I seem to find myself at the moment. At least until I can figure out how to turn it.

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Weekend bonus shot, 10.25.09

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Running boy, Berkeley, CA.

Image above taken a couple of weeks back by the Special Uncle with my camera, only it isn’t my camera but a dear friend’s, on extendo-loan, and (my, do I give it a workout).  What I like about this is how well this moment conveys this boy’s grace.  Maybe he’s not a toddler anymore? Anybody with a running stride like that just might be a young kid instead. O heavens, we have two young kids.

Parenthood: your daily reminder of the indifferent, unblinking onward march of time. Ready or not, here it comes.

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BPWP #3

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Blue, streak. Girl on the go, South of Market sidestreet, San Francisco, CA.

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BPWP #2

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Whoosh! ‘Round the zoo’s merry-go-round, Oakland, CA.

Blurry Photo Week Photo #2, cheating a bit on the blurry, since we have a bit of a kid in focus. But I think the pop-flash boy does have a now you see him, now you don’t kind of quality. Which is precisely what a child’s childhood is. That person there, waving in glee from the truck? Ten years from now he may not even recognize this boy. Our job, of course, is to keep the capacity for glee flowing, from whatever the vehicle.

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It’s blurry photo week!

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Madonna and kids, exiting the Castro Theater, San Francisco, CA.

Okay not that Madonna.

This week, in a valiant effort to continue to post fresh content here when I am feeling a lot more like the cat pictured on the most recent LD Weekend bonus shot, I have decided to tinker with and post an assortment of more abstract-ish photos from the LD photographic archives.

Beyond the prevailing reasons outlined in the Weekend bonus shot of late (stress! and also, burnout!), I also happen to believe a number of things which these various blurry images will do a reasonable job of conveying. Namely:

  1. Life, in its infinite complexity, eludes representation in any form, literary or pictorial. Therrefore, blurry may well be more honest. And,
  2. Photographic images can only convey a fraction of what they might be (might be!) attempting to convey, in the way of fleeting moments. Therefore, why bother trying to render those moments “accurately”? And,
  3. If, for the past three-plus years, I’ve made some sort of compact with the world around me (i.e., You, gentle reader) to take a stab at consistently representing my (mannish lesbian) parental experience, and stress and burnout is part of it (insofar as such things are unavoidable elements of life, even currently-in-reasonable health middle class life), then mightn’t a spate of blurry images of marginally determinant subjects be in keeping with that compact? I hope so, ’cause that will be this week’s theme.

Since banned books week at the end of September, I’ve had some pieces on LGBT family kids’ books in the buff-n’-polish queue, and since Nat’l Coming Out Day I’ve had something brewing on the winner of the LD swag give-away and the results of this year’s Reader Survey (really, really helpful, heartening, and very much appreciated). Those items are still forthcoming, along with a fix of the various mishaps my recent DIY WordPress upgrade made hap’.

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Weekend bonus shot, 10.17.09

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T-shirt, Old Sacramento, CA.

“A bit frontal,” my playwright mother-in-law might say.

This t-shirt jumped out at me when we were strolling around between our visit to the train museum last weekend and our train trip back home. “Jumped out” because (a) it scared the bejeepers out of me, and (b) once the fright subsided, I thought: “Yep.”

Rather than kvetch in a generalized fashion (and heaven knows I could), I will stick to the “beat” of this blog and simply note that WOW has the jump to Kindergarten been a big one! And not for the fresh Kindergartener herself, I hasten to note.  After the requisite patches of turbulence, she’s doing just fine.  It’s her parents who, when the dust settles at the end of the evening, find themselves legs akimbo, using one or more of the past week’s half-read missives from the school as fans.

I wish I had the time or means to detail it all further, but I can’t right now. For further illustration I refer you to the photo above.

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