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- Lesbian Dad commented on Fairy wings saying Thank you, all. And, implicitly, for understanding the relative radio silence, Welcome, jessacorn. You know, that "selfish note" is really very helpful. It's one of the few, most powerful grace notes amidst the long (long) reverberating shocks from grief and loss -- the knowledge that others take note, and live (or in my case,
- jessacorn commented on Fairy wings saying To echo the comments above, I'm sorry for your loss. On a more selfish note I want to tell you that your words nudged me out of a pointless and unecessary lull and reminded me to live. Thank you for posting.
- perkl8 commented on SF Pride Slideshow saying bee-yootiful. Thanks so much for posting all the photos! We got to the celebration a bit late so didn't see much parade. I LOVE the Our Family Coalition contingent! Balloons! Kids! Faboo signs! I LOVE the Papa/Daddy/Kid t-shirts. Great to see you at the playground %>
- Chris commented on SF Pride Slideshow saying How awesome that the Our Families Coalition was float #42. The answer to life, the universe, and everything :o) One of these days I'm going to have to make the pilgrimage to see a pride that big.
- Vikki commented on SF Pride Slideshow saying Beautiful pictures as usual! You captured the feel perfectly.
- Vikki commented on Papadaddy saying They are all adorable!
- Lesbian Dad commented on I heart Pride saying Thanks, Vikki. True enough: very hard to negotiate heat, crowds, and streetcar tracks whilst herding wee ones. Herding pictures of them adds an extra special challenge. Fortunately, for most of the walk up Market St. we had three adults in our immediate group, and another half-dozen chums in shouting distance. And
- Vikki commented on I heart Pride saying That picture is fabulous! I posted the few pics I took at Pride on my blog. I wish that I had taken more but it's hard when you are wrangling the kids through crowds...as you well know.
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Oh that is GENIUS.
Now that is a work of art! How come my SO never thought of this?
Man, that is some sort of crazy pancake-making dedication. I’m always pleased with myself at making them at all.
That totally rocks.
Ohhhhh! I want dino pancakes!
You are a pancake artiste! I am awed by your mad pancake skillz.
Oooh, how cool! Is this the way you console yourself when lil Punky wont eat? At least you still get to look at your culinary artwork?