Archive | October, 2007

Flash! Abby sez gay nuptials a-okay!

Says so, right here:

“I believe if two people want to commit to each other, God bless ‘em,” the syndicated advice columnist told The Associated Press. “That is the highest form of commitment, for heaven’s sake.”

The piece is worth a read, not just because of the refreshingly frank, no-nonsense sensibility of Abby (or rather her daughter Jeanne Phillips, who assumed the column when her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s five years ago), but also because in it one is treated to the correct spelling of “brouhaha.” And I’ve been going “broo ha ha” all this time.

Regardless of your position on gay marriage — and by that I mean, within queer/progressive community, that one could be lukewarm about or anti- marriage without being lukewarm about or anti-gay people (consider, for instance, the Alternatives to Marriage Project) — it’s impossible to deny that gay marriage functions as a very close stand-in for gay people these days. For better or worse (in sickness and in health; for richer or for poorer).

Hats off to Abby. Made my National Coming Out Day (about which, stay tuned).

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A little foreshadowing

On deck: a ditty about the sailor mouth coming home to roost. In the mouth of my dear sweet three-year-old girl.

I blame The Menopause.

Meanwhile, I offer up for your consideration this thematically appropriate appetizer: part two of the “Sailor Mouth” episode of SpongeBob SquarePants.

[Procrastinator at Work notes: six and a half minutes worth of nonsense fun; remember to turn the volume down on your computer.]

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U-caption it

First line of text goes here…

…second line goes here.

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Weekend bonus shot, 10.06.07

Pouty kitty, Berkeley, CA.

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Angle of repose

In keeping with the ongoing Banned Books Week theme-o-rama, I close the workweek with this image of the lil’ monkey indulging in her all-time favorite activity.

Parents of not-yet-potty trained toddlers may also read something else between the lines. I couldn’t possibly comment.

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Some queerspawn reading lists

During Banned Books Week, we all get to reflect on the life-saving quality of the books in our lives. So, continuing the celebration, I wanted to collect in one post a bunch of useful book-ish resources for youse LGBT parents out there, or those of youse who know some, and want to figure out what to get their kiddles for the next gift-giving occasion.

Some time back, I worked up a Kids’ books page off of this site reproducing a book list that was distributed to members of the San Francisco Bay Area’s Our Family Coalition by a woman who had done a book search for her own kids’ school. To this, I added a smattering of additional resources, listed on the Kids’ books page and repeated below.

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V is for visibility

ABC A Family Alphabet Book, by Bobbie Combs (illustrated by Desiree Keane and Brian Rappa), may or may not currently be in the shorthairs of the would-be censors. But it’s a great book. Not like the plot surprises — it’s the alphabet, after all; we know where it’s headed. But the quiet appearance and reappearance of two-mom- and two-dad-headed families keeps us picking it up again and again. (“O is for overalls. I always wear my overalls when my dads take us to the playground.”)

The first time the beloved read it with the lil’ monkey, she got teary after just a few pages. The beloved, that is. Our girlie just liked the illustrations.

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A.P.B.: ENDA trans discrimination on hold

Much afoot about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, or ENDA. I’m too slow-moving a craft to do much justice to breaking news (more cruise ship than speedboat), but I definitely want to alert readers not already more abreast than me to what’s up with this bill.

The ENDA is a proposed U.S. federal law, along the lines of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, that would prohibit discrimination against employees on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. Early attempts to propose a full-blown civil rights bill for LGB folk — Bella Abzug and Ed Koch’s 1974 “Gay Rights Bill,” HR 14752 — would have added “sexual orientation” to the Civil Rights Act. In the early 1990s, though, attempts for full civil rights protections were scaled back to employment protections, and this is what we’ve got going at the moment. (Wiki synopsis here.)

ENDA was introduced in April of this year, and has snaked its way through political process to the point where we now find it, sweating under the glare of the bright lights, the transphobia and compromise-readiness of some of its handlers all hanging out for everyone to see. The battle has now shifted from attempts to get the ENDA out of committee and to a vote before the House of Representatives, to attempts to stave off the evisceration of transgender people from the historic bill. Because last week, House Speaker Nanci Pelosi and Representative Barney Frank put forth a version of the bill strategically omitting protections against employment discriminations based on gender identity, on the logic that it would have a better chance of passing.

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