Comments on: Some questions about connectedness

By: mlthom

mlthom — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 02:32:01 +0000

Sick and reading a parenting mag in the doctor office. Recommended your blog, and I see why! Hence the newer comment in an old post: I am catching up in a slow and savoring type of way. Anyway, we just (6 months ago) had our first, and were talking today about perhaps adopting our second at some point, and I couldn’t agree more with all you have said here. While TTC I think it was made painfully clear that children need loving parents, and loving parents need children. Gift me a child in whatever way and I will love them. How crazy lucky are we, to be the recipient of the glow that you photographed so well? Blood and biology just has so very little to do with love, from my perspective.

By: Tamara Granger

Tamara Granger — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 05:54:36 +0000

People who opposed to same-sex couples having kids need to read this blog and maybe they will understand..that’s of course if their heards are not to far up their *sses… the way you describe your interactions with your children is wonderful…you are treasuring every moment you get because you never thought it possible and sister is a beautiful thing.
And Im still reading 2007, maybe by next week I’ll making a comment on things that are actually happening xD

By: Afternoon son light at Lesbian Dad

Afternoon son light at Lesbian Dad — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 21:22:15 +0000

[...] I would say he has a special je ne sais quois about him, but I kind of think I know quois. It’s a charm and a magnetism that is outside of language. Ineffable. Leastwise, it works on me. In general, the most articulate way I can put it is, he drives me crazy with love for him. Really, it’s visceral in a unique way. Been like that pretty much since birth (Exhibit A). [...]

By: sybil

sybil — Tue, 01 May 2007 17:31:13 +0000

Ohmygoodness, I need to see and touch this boy! We have a photo of Zbopp that looks ever so similar to this wildly cutie one. Missing you muchly! –Sybil

By: IrreverendAmy

IrreverendAmy — Sun, 22 Apr 2007 07:09:20 +0000

Seconding Vikki. I’ve seen the look on my wife’s face as she holds our daughter and I know that comparisons are not only odious, they’re stupid. We both love her like our own souls.

By: LesbianDad

LesbianDad — Sat, 21 Apr 2007 17:47:10 +0000

Sister, I know. What. You mean.

By: Blue Ox

Blue Ox — Sat, 21 Apr 2007 05:59:41 +0000

He. Is. Absolutely. LUSCIOUS.

Not everyone can make me talk. In. Periods.

By: LesbianDad

LesbianDad — Fri, 20 Apr 2007 17:18:45 +0000

My pleasure!

And Vikki, thanks.

And Trista, yeah sister! Scoot, the rest of you, and peep this what she wrote: Advice for Bio Moms.

By: Trista

Trista — Fri, 20 Apr 2007 17:15:46 +0000

here here

By: Liza

Liza — Fri, 20 Apr 2007 17:01:47 +0000

Mmmm, baby smell. Especially if the baby got to go outside in the sun for a little while. And just ate. And has an unsoiled diaper. The most perfect smell on earth.

Thanks for giving me such a yummy moment in the middle of a hectic day.