Archive for March, 2007

Weekend bonus shot, 03.31.07

2 Comments Published March 31st, 2007 in Mostly a picture, Weekend bonus shot.

Pajama party, Berkeley, CA.

Sandbox paradox

10 Comments Published March 29th, 2007 in Baba familias, Seraphim/dakini.

The careful observer will note: that’s no shovel, that’s a mirror. Atsa my monkey!
The other day my sister’s son and I joined my daughter out in her office, a place known to others simply as the backyard sandbox. She received us with barely a nod, so engaged was she in her work filling [...]

Blue Monday

3 Comments Published March 26th, 2007 in Mostly a picture, Seraphim/dakini.

Musical accompaniment by Miss Ethel Waters.

Weekend bonus shot, 03.25.07

6 Comments Published March 25th, 2007 in Mostly a picture, Weekend bonus shot.

Sunday morning, Berkeley, CA.

From the vault

4 Comments Published March 23rd, 2007 in From the vault, Mostly a picture.

Young and old girlies, first posted in July 2006.

Vat am I to do?

13 Comments Published March 22nd, 2007 in Re: the bairn, Seraphim/dakini.

A David Hockney-esque collage of vignettes, some forty-eight hours out.
At the dinner table, cradling my son in the crook of my left arm, looking half the time at his latch on the bottle of expressed Mama milk, half the time at the vast gulf of emptiness just beyond his head, the spot where Maxi would [...]

Rest in peace

16 Comments Published March 20th, 2007 in Mostly a picture, Seraphim/dakini.

Dog park, day after.
Max, Jr., October ?, 1993 - March 19, 2007.
Also answered to: Maxer, Maxi, Maxi Pad; Boo, Boodley, Boodly-Boo, Boolie-o; Doo, Doodley-Doo, Doolie-o; Snook, Snookey, Snooka-Book; and Hey! Look! We dropped something! Right there!
Eulogy/paen to follow, in due time. Many thanks for your kindnesses.
[Back story here.]

Who says irony is dead?

4 Comments Published March 19th, 2007 in Seraphim/dakini.

While making the grim phone call to the vet researching whether and how they schedule a home visit for euthanasia (backstory here), I am put on hold by the receptionist.
Muzak kicks in, and it’s Harry Connick, Jr. singing “I’ve Got You Under My Skin.”
I’m just saying that art will never be capable of [...]

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