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| Weekend bonus shot, 01.04.09 | 1/04 |
| New Year’s portrait | 1/01 |
| Whoosh! | 12/31 |
| Weekend bonus shot, 12.27.08 | 12/27 |
| Pas de deux | 12/24 |
| Weekend bonus shot, 12.20.08 | 12/20 |
| Et tu, Barry? | 12/18 |
| Monkey business at The Palace Hotel | 12/17 |
| A haberdashery interlude | 12/15 |
| Weekend bonus shot, 12.13.08 | 12/14 |
| Favorite things | 12/12 |
| Wee missive | 12/11 |
| East Bay Post-Prop 8 Community Forum | 12/08 |
| Weekend bonus shot, 12.06.08 | 12/06 |
| A chat with Ben | 12/04 |
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inout (27) - Hey, hey! What do you say?* (27)
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- cook a little, pick up daughter and dance her around the room, cook a little more. Next swing the son. I'm well aware how blessed I am. 2009/01/04
- cooking brunch for special aunt-uncle-cousins, to David Byrne's musical tastes: http://www.davidbyrne.com/radio/ 2009/01/04
LD tweets: Less is, well, less
[The whole LD Twitter enchilada would be here.]
Prop 8 / The LGBTQ civil equality fight
I've archived LD stuff at a No on 8 page. These days, to my mind, Join the Impact is the best place to find out about ongoing coordinated citizen participant campaigns, detailed below.
• In the next three months:
• In the next three months:
• Ongoing: Project Postcard. Let Obama's administration know your concerns for LGBTQ civil equality
• Nov 24 - Jan 18: Marriage Equality USA town hall forums & post-election debriefings (CA, FL, & NY).
•Nov 28 - Dec 20: National LGBTQ Food Drive.
• Dec 5-7: Milk Movement. Help the Harvey Milk biopic open to a strong release.
• Dec 10: Day Without a Gay. Economic boycott. LGBTQ community contributes $700 billion/yr to the US economy. For one day, let's us (and our allies) withhold it, and instead do visible service work.
• Dec 20: Light Up the Night for Equal Rights. Candlelight vigil for visiblity.
• Jan 10: National Protest Against DOMA.
• Feb 12: Freedom to Marry Day, nationwide. • Feb 16: Love and Marriage Rally, Sacramento, CA. • Feb 17: Marriage Lobby Day, Sacramento, CA.
• Nov 24 - Jan 18: Marriage Equality USA town hall forums & post-election debriefings (CA, FL, & NY).
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• Dec 5-7: Milk Movement. Help the Harvey Milk biopic open to a strong release.
• Dec 10: Day Without a Gay. Economic boycott. LGBTQ community contributes $700 billion/yr to the US economy. For one day, let's us (and our allies) withhold it, and instead do visible service work.
• Dec 20: Light Up the Night for Equal Rights. Candlelight vigil for visiblity.
• Feb 12: Freedom to Marry Day, nationwide. • Feb 16: Love and Marriage Rally, Sacramento, CA. • Feb 17: Marriage Lobby Day, Sacramento, CA.
Selected news items /analyses thereof:
"In a First, Gay Rights Are Pressed at the U.N.," Neil MacFarquhar, The New York Times, 18 Dec 2008.
"On Civil Rights, Obama Must Lead, Not Tinker," Jeffrey Feldman, The Huffington Post, 18 December 2008.
"Milk and the Idea of California," Eli Sanders, The American Prospect, 5 Dec 2008. [h/t Terrence at Republic of T.]
"The New Politics of Yes: Yes We Can... Overturn Prop 8," Torrie Osborn, The Bilerico Project, 1 Dec 2008
"NYT op-ed on Prop 8, blacks and a 'moral minority,'" Pam Spaulding, Pam's House Blend, 1 Dec 2008.
"On Civil Rights, Obama Must Lead, Not Tinker," Jeffrey Feldman, The Huffington Post, 18 December 2008.
"Milk and the Idea of California," Eli Sanders, The American Prospect, 5 Dec 2008. [h/t Terrence at Republic of T.]
"The New Politics of Yes: Yes We Can... Overturn Prop 8," Torrie Osborn, The Bilerico Project, 1 Dec 2008
"NYT op-ed on Prop 8, blacks and a 'moral minority,'" Pam Spaulding, Pam's House Blend, 1 Dec 2008.
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Pictures like these make me want to have another baby. Luisa - if you are reading this, don’t think I’ve lost my mind and am shopping for sperm right now
He’s beautiful!
A techie aside…how do you get the pictures to display so nicely on your blog?
And getting more handsome every day.
Thank you both. Of coure he gets his rakish good looks from my side of the family.
On the techie front, Vikki: display-wise, I do very little other than: (a) use Flickr as my “holding tank” for the images, and then (b) pop the URL for the size picture I want (the biggie size for my layout is 480px x 319px) into the top of the text box for a post’s entry. It’s WordPress K2 convention, I think, to do the thin border. I vaguely remember selecting (or not nixing) that as an option when I was setting things up. Maybe. Or maybe that was from Flickr?
Image-wise, I do think that the camera & lens help: I have a Canon Digital Rebel XT which generates 8 megapixel images, and it lets me do most everything with available light (using ISO 1600). The lens I use is from my old analog film days — couldn’t afford both the digital body and new lenses, so I just sold my old body & my main lens & got a digital camera body that would use the fixed-width 24mm lens I kept. I got that one long ago (13 yrs? back when we were Avenging) to do wide angle-y photojournalistic-y stuff. Now, with digital, the 24mm lens has lost the slight wide-angle edge distortion, & functions more like a 35mm-ish jobbie would on analog. (I think that’s what Henri Cartier-Bresson used? With his Leica? Who knows.) But with the high quality of the raw image, I can crop and kinda get a pseudo- cheapskate telephoto effect. One day when the ship comes in I’ll buy another lens. I’m sure.
On this image above I fiddled around with the tint and stuff, too. Usually I do that on the fly with iPhoto (which does have a handful of the most essential contrast/ hue fixes that Photoshop has). If something warrants lots more effort I go to Photoshop. But that’s on special occasions. The iPhoto options do great for most stuff, I’m finding.
Ooops! A hair more detail than you might have asked after, mebbe! But there you go. Maybe all you needed to know was WordPress K2 plus Flickr.
I’ll have to sit down with a big cup of coffee and sort through that answer. I’m very much a beginner on this whole thing.
I did manage to put some borders around my photos now (editing the style sheet) and adjust the thumbnail size. Now, I will have to experiment with flickr. I have an account that I rarely use. I know…I’m so uncool.
Thanks for the detail though! I know that you are a busy gal these days so I appreciate you takin’ the time.
One for all and all for one, sez I!
Now off to the courthouse to become Street Legal for kid #1! Details to follow.
Wow! Legal so soon? Melissa had to wait six months with our little Rocky. Too bad it’s not automatic, that your own children can be legally your own children. Infuriating, actually.
He seems so alert and aware and present for a three-week old.
I love that chin dimple
Ah, Blue O., would that the street legal was for the little peanut pictured in the come hither pose above. No, it’s a way, long, long overdue street legal for our first kidling. Long story, some of which I hope to record here. The court proceedings were so quick, given how long it took us to get to the court. I didn’t even have a chance to trot out any Perry Mason jokes or anything.
One day we won’t have this proceeding to go through. But I have to say there’s something to having parenthood so formalized that I think is a bonus, too (odd, I know: I hope to make sense of it in more column inches…).
And virgotex: Of course I couldn’t agree more with you. Any & all complements to this little nipper I find utterly trenchant and perspecacious (?!!). I’m with you on the chin dimple, too. That’ll be slaying ‘em, right left & center. Whoever the ‘em is.
Right on… I respectfully request a place on that waiting list for my two little peanuts. He is gorgeous and very much in peace with whomever is holding him.
he is sooo adorable. great smirk, bit mischievous, feels very responsible scientist smart. funny. yes. definitely dry as a bone funny.
sure, ld, it reads like a personal ad, but it’s comforting to know that at least one of has the perfect man.
I hope you and your gorgeous family are doing wonderfully.
katie
What a beautiful baby!
and brilliant too, I’m sure.