cialis acquisto cialis costo naturale viagra medicamento sildenafil levitra confezioni e prezzi cialis receta medica acquisto viagra net viagra ventajas viagra se necesita receta cialis 20 mg costo levitra 20 mg viagra naturale alle erbe kamagra soft tabs generico levitra viagra vendita acquistare viagra levitra vendita on line pastillas viagra viagra donde conseguir vendita libera viagra viagra benefici viagra venta libre alternativa viagra tadalafil 20mg cialis efeitos secundarios acquista viagra viagra modalità d'uso comprar viagra pela net sildenafil laboratorio chile viagra vendita libera viagra simili comprare viagra senza carta di credito viagra fa bene comprare viagra senza ricetta viagra kopen generico do viagra cialis cialis differenze cialis chez la femme cialis 20 mg effetti collaterali precio viagra receta cialis durata effetto acquista cialis generico tadalafil 10 mg viagra oferta sildenafil 100 mg viagra originale on line cialis te koop cialis ricetta viagra tabletas cialis farmaco da banco andorre cialis medicamento viagra comprare viagra in italia cialis compresse 20 mg cialis mezza compressa cialis e viagra differenze levitra nederland viagra media pastilla viagra generico funziona cialis nederland sildenafil de venta libre kamagra controindicazioni viagra generico prezzo disfuncion erectil medicamentos viagra o similar effet cialis sur femme levitra durata effetto durata levitra prezzi cialis viagra contrassegno cialis 20 mg originale cialis dosaggio consigliato medicament levitra venta sildenafil viagra medicinale cialis principio attivo cialis naturale cialis costo farmacia sildenafil o similares cialis europa generische levitra viagra donna viagra per le donne viagra venta a domicilio ordina levitra viagra naturale funziona levitra quanto costa levitra originale cialis pastiglie acquisto viagra san marino comprare viagra cialis in farmacia senza ricetta femminile viagra viagra apotheek kosten viagra viagra svizzera ricetta tadalafil senza ricetta viagra efeitos viagra e cialis differenze sildenafil similares prezzo viagra 25 mg prezzo cialis 20 mg levitra in farmacia levitra dosaggio compra viagra online costo levitra cialis requiere receta medica viagra offerte cialis erbe cialis farmacia cialis in contrassegno viagra pasti cialis alternativo cialis 10 mg prezzo cialis senza ricetta compro viagra generico costo sildenafil sildenafil foro farmacia viagra viagra generico vendita erectie middelen cialis a vendre vendita cialis generico in italia viagra naturale in farmacia echte kamagra viagra cialis generico viagra o similares acquistare viagra sicuro cialis prezzo in farmacia viagra farmacie levitra senza ricetta cialis acquista viagra receta viagra per donne achat cialis andorre cialis vendita in italia viagra belgie viagra livraison 48h viagra sin receta medica veritable cialis viagra a san marino viagra super active costo viagra ricetta levitra sildenafil magnus 50 mg prezzo cialis farmacia precio viagra similares acquista cialis on line acquisto viagra svizzera viagra da 25 viagra costo in farmacia cialis donna cialis generico italia levitra farmacia viagra vendo viagra sin receta en farmacias vardenafil costo cialis pasticche cialis roma viagra e simili kamagra bijwerkingen viagra prezzo farmacia vendo cialis originale cialis contrassegno cialis caratteristiche sildenafil generico compra viagra originale precio viagra con receta erectie stoornis acquistare cialis su internet sildenafil medicamento receta sildenafil cialis prise quotidienne farmaco viagra comprare viagra in internet cialis generico prezzo cialis farmacia senza ricetta levitra acquisto on line viagra venta kamagra barato cialis vendo cialis senza ricetta svizzera tadalafil 20 mg la viagra levitra 10 mg generico viagra svizzera costi cialis precio levitra en farmacia levitra moins cher cialis originale online viagra milano levitra prezzo in farmacia cialis generico effetti collaterali cialis comprare comprare levitra alternatief viagra marcas sildenafil viagra nombre cientifico viagra da banco cialis medicinale viagra compresse ordina cialis viagra receta medica cialis vendita italia sildenafil para mujer prezzo viagra in farmacia sildenafil 50 mg magnus prezzi viagra cialis sin receta medica levitra sur le net differenze cialis viagra levitra female viagra femigra viagra moins cher cialis pagamento contrassegno sildenafil en la mujer potentie pil acquisto cialis italia medicament cialis 5mg prezzo viagra originale viagra femminile koop cialis cialis da 20 mg cialis generico sicuro levitra prescrizione betere erectie viagra costa comprare viagra su internet comprare viagra in farmacia vendita viagra generico cialis sildenafil marcas cialis prescrizione medica viagra prezzo in farmacia viagra acquistare comprare cialis a san marino sildenafil farmacia cialis berlin prezzo cialis sildenafil magnus levitra 10 mg effetti collaterali costo cialis 20 mg cialis ca marche cialis india levitra zonder recept viagra generico opinioni vardenafil tabletas kamagra generico viagra viagra livraison 24h sildenafil venta libre viagra ricetta medica farmaco levitra medicamento sildenafil 50 mg compro viagra online farmaco cialis viagra roma viagra alle erbe cialis donne cialis dove si compra vendo cialis milano cialis serve la ricetta levitra preço sildenafil efectos en mujeres cialis compresse el viagra prezzo levitra 10 mg levitra apotheek kamagra pil prezzo levitra cialis libera vendita vrai cialis erectie probleem citrato de sildenafil viagra delle donne cialis forum al femminile vardenafil precio viagra italia tadalafil costo tadalafil effetti collaterali sustituto viagra viagra prescrizione medica levitra contrassegno viagra prezzi dosaggi cialis acquisto levitra impotencia remedios cialis generico viagra on line contrassegno ordina viagra cialis torrino cialis prescrizione cialis 10 mg funziona kamagra 100 mg impotenza rimedi sildenafil farmacias ahumada viagra ricetta ripetibile vardenafil generique vardenafil 20mg cialis original livraison rapide sildenafil efecto en mujeres vardenafil hci comprare viagra generico viagra naturale cialis acquisto sicuro cialis prezzo farmacia acquistare levitra sildenafil generico en mexico tadalafil naturale cialise medicament cialis en espagne viagra nombre generico forum cialis naturale viagra 100 prezzo sildenafil genericos receta cialis generique levitra cialis 20 mg compra generico viagra levitra viagra cialis differenze viagra senza prescrizione medica cialis svizzera prezzo cialis in farmacia acquistare viagra online impotencia sexual viagra senza ricetta in farmacia firmel sildenafil cialis verkoop cialis pillen viagra se vende sin receta sildenafil generico mexico cialis generico forum citrato di sildenafil viagra ci vuole la ricetta levitra maroc venta viagra generico levitra medicinale cialis costa viagra torino svizzera viagra comprare cialis su internet viagra generico contrassegno sildenafil receta medica vendita cialis in svizzera cialis 5 mg costo prezzo cialis generico effetti viagra sulle donne viagra on line sildenafil precios cialis o simili levitra durata cialis farmacia prezzo levitra 20 mg



Bayard Rustin in 1965, by Stanley Wolfson for the World Telegram and Sun, from Rustin’s Wikipedia page.

[Warning! Another jumbo post alert!]

We shall overcome
We shall overcome some day
Oh deep in my heart
I do belive
That we shall overcome some day

Thus go the lyrics to the single most emblematic spiritual of the Black Civil Rights Movement of the 1950s and 1960s. It provides the opening soundtrack to this video of the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s best known speech. (The page includes audio, video, and the text of the speech.) On the day finally set aside to celebrate Dr. King, his stirring “I Have A Dream” speech in front of over 250,000 that day usually symbolizes the apogee of his life and work.

But as any student of both King and the Civil Righs Movement will tell you, his oratory and activism spanned a vast range of issues, anti-war and anti-poverty among the most readily overlooked by those who would white-wash his contribution to American social justice struggles. Often overlooked as well, and not accidentally, was the contribution of the Gay African American man who was the Deputy Director and chief organizer for the 1963 March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, Bayard Rustin.

In a September, 2003 Nation piece entitled “From Protest to Patronage,” Randall Kennedy reviewed historian John D’Emilio’s just published Lost Prophet: The Life and Times of Bayard Rustin. Preceeding the review is a thoughtful survey of Rustin’s contributions over the years, from his early work with A. Phillip Randolph to his advising of a young Dr. King in Ghandian strategies, to his being ostracized from movement work by “sexual blackmail” on the part of Adam Clayton Powell, to his reemergence as the principal architect of the historic 1963 March on Washington:

He lined up the support of the major civil rights organizations, many unions, an ecumenical roster of prominent religious leaders and scores of celebrities (including Paul Newman, Marlon Brando, Joan Baez, Sammy Davis Jr., Joanne Woodward, Sidney Poitier and, yes, Charlton Heston). Rustin methodically addressed nitty-gritty details involving transportation, policing, toilets, housing, food, medical care, trash disposal, entertainment, etc. He calmed the jittery nerves of supporters who feared failure, overcame the objections of President Kennedy, who feared disorder, and mollified egotistical civil rights leaders who suspected that rivals would reap greater benefits than themselves. Bringing to bear skills he had honed for decades, Rustin set the stage for a massive display of support for the civil rights movement as some 250,000 people converged on Washington on a workday–Wednesday, August 28, 1963.

Kennedy continues to describe Rustin’s move to the political center in the years following the March, and his taking up, in the final decades of his life and with some reservations, the cause of gay and lesbian liberation. In a much-repeated 1986 statement during a talk to Black and White Men Together (or BWMT), he said that “the barometer for social change is measured by selecting the group which is most mistreated,” and that now “the new ‘n_ gg _rs’ are gays.” This statement may sound validating to some, betraying to others.

I myself am disinclined to make direct comparison between oppressions, finding analogy is as close as one ought to venture, and then primarily as a means of comprehension. But when comparison is what one’s up to, the genocidal Middle Passage of Africans to America, two hundred fifty years of chattel slavery, and another hundred years of de jure discrimination stand alone in North American history. Yet for better or worse, a sanitized version of the BWMT statement now sits near the top of the Wikipedia entry on Ruskin, and for those whose knowledge of the man derives from E-Z online searching, it will become a defining statement. At least he is not alone among civil rights figures in drawing some connection between the two struggles: Coretta Scott King has been outspoken for quite some time (Mombian notes as much here; here’s another compendium on hatecrime.org). Dolores Huerta and Julian Bond are present and accounted for as well:

Solmonese: How do you see our fight for equality — whether it’s in the workplace or in our everyday lives — as compared with the great civil rights movement that you and others ushered through in this country?

Bond: Well, I think with minor, minor exceptions, it is an exact parallel. A couple of years ago, I was in Seattle and this white guy came up to me and identified himself as a steel worker and said he was so grateful to the NAACP. I said, “Why?” He said [it was] because the NAACP had filed a suit against restrictive seniority rules that privileged white workers, and it dis-privileged him. He was denied the chance to promotion on his job. But the black NAACP fought the fight for black workers, and the benefits were felt by white workers like him. When the black civil rights movement wins an advance, it isn’t a black advance. It is an advance for all people. Everyone moves forward. Everyone takes another step. That’s true with gays and lesbians; it’s true with Hispanics; it’s true with women. It’s true with all of us.

——————

In the spring of 1993, nearly thirty years after Rustin’s triumphant March on Washington, I visited the steps of the Lincoln Memorial for the first time. It was the Friday night before what would be the largest all-lesbian March on Washington, an event which itself preceeded the huge April 25 March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights. (The smallest crowd estimate for that march, by the National Park Service, clocked in at 50,000 more than the historic 1963 march. Attendees knew it was something like three times as many.) An ad hoc planning meeting of Lesbian Avengers from various cities had just finished, and I needed to make a pilgrimmage to the site of King’s speech in the quiet of the night. In college I had found myself by working with an interracial student group which sought to continue King’s legacy, and had steeped myself in study of the Movement.

I am not a weeper, generally speaking, and as of then — before my mother died, which she would do that fall — I had never been moved to weep by something as abstract as a place, symbolizing a thing. But in the chill of the evening, when most of the visitors in town were at parties or planning meetings or both, I walked half-way up the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, turned to face the Washington Mall, and could not help but weep. I wept for the collective power of so much hope, of so much determination, so much love, all expressed together. Wept to think — no, to feel — that I might be able to be a part of that, in some kind of way, in my own lifetime.

At the time, my field of vision encompassed racial justice, gender justice and, now LGBT civil rights. I was over a decade away from my parenthood. Had no idea who would be dying in my life, who would hold my hand through those deaths, who was yet to be born. Didn’t realize how much more powerful my own hope and determination and love could be, when turned toward the bright light of young lives in my care. I do believe however that that night, I realized — or felt, finally — that Ghandi was right:

It is the law of love that rules mankind… Whether humanity will consciously follow the law of love, I do not know. But that need not disturb me. The law will work just as the law of gravitation works, whether we accept it or not. The person who discovered the law of love was a far greater scientist than any of our modern scientists. Only our explorations have not gone far enough and so it is not possible for everyone to see all its workings.


2 Responses to “It is the law of love that rules mankind”

  1. 1 ShirleyMalmborg

    Dear Ms P., thanks for that.

  2. 2 rosessupposes

    Last summer and fall, I wrote a handful of extended encyclopedia entries on African American “icons.” One of my topics was Bayard Rustin. I had read about him before, but it was a pleasure to get to know him well enough to write the piece. He was a complicated man, as all great men and women are, and a fascinating one.

Leave a Reply

You must login to post a comment.

    mitrice-web A missing 24 year-old California woman and her family need your help. Please visit findmitrice.info and spread the word & her likeness, particularly to folks in and around California.
    LDonTwitter.final



    The whole LD Twitter enchilada is here. FWIW.


    selectedvideo.final








    "I think masculinity is what you believe it to be." US men's figure skater Johnny Weir.



    LGBTcivilrights.final




    EQAcrossAM Holding the 14th amendment to its word.



    LGBT people are basically invisible in the survey that is supposed to reflect the diversity of America's population – and that's a big problem.








    Archived material about the 2008 California marriage equality fight and this site's treatment of it can be found at an LD No on 8 page. There you'll also find links to background info on the marriage equality issue & sources of info on current campaigns, like The Courage Campaign's Equality Hub. For ongoing news roundup on national marriage equality issues (updated daily), check out Stop8.org.







    LesbianDad101.final
    Lesbian Dad Lesbian Dad is written by a parent who answers to the name "Baba" and works toward a world in which amor does indeed vincit omnia.

    Still curious? You'll find a ton more on the About page. Or the Glossary. Or the Best of LD. The closest thing to an origin story can be found in this six-post series, excerpted from an essay of mine describing the dawn of my lesbian fatherhood.

    Hispanohablantes: ¿aquí por error? Tengo una página para usted.

    Like to help keep this thing afloat? Ads dent, but don't cover operating costs. I'm grateful for whatever you might...