Archive for January, 2007

Note to self re: LDC and sleep deprivation

9 Comments Published January 30th, 2007 in Baba familias.

The lesbian nation may not have civil rights protections at a state or federal level; we may be grasping at essential family protections via marriage rights at a state-by-state level. In the rare cases where we do get them they’re under attack the moment they become established, and probably will be ’til the generation [...]

Smoochapalooza

5 Comments Published January 29th, 2007 in Mostly a picture.

Happens one, maybe two hundred times a day. Forehead, wink of eye, cheek, chin, fingers. If kisses were graffiti he’d be a piece, bombed, top-to-bottom. And sister would be king.
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Weekend bonus shot, 01.27.07

2 Comments Published January 27th, 2007 in Mostly a picture, Weekend bonus shot.

Brother nursing, sister drinking, Berkeley, CA.
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Little dickens

6 Comments Published January 25th, 2007 in Mostly a picture.

It was the best of times,

it was the worst of times.

It may be that she’ll forget he wasn’t always in our lives, sooner than it’ll take for us to make it through the last of the copious Post-Partum Dinner Brigade leftovers. But it’s heart-tugging to see all the feelings pass through her.
It’ll [...]

One nightstand

4 Comments Published January 25th, 2007 in Baba familias, Mostly a picture.

A guided tour of Baba’s nightstand, nearing the end of week one of kidling #2. Otherwise known as What’s Really On My Laptop.
1. Phone stand, empty due to the fact that the beloved is on the phone that it cradles, telling The Tale to yet another dear friend from afar. Or maybe [...]

All baby action all week

1 Comment Published January 23rd, 2007 in Mostly a picture.

Yeah, so I promised prose, but it’s clearly looking like all I can do this week is post baby pictures. Who can blame me?
On him: hospital-issue onsie. On her: Mombian’s priceless “One of my moms is blogging this” t-shirt.
[Am I the only one who's reminded of this image by the above? [...]

Chez nous these days

6 Comments Published January 22nd, 2007 in Mostly a picture.

I promised myself (& the beloved!) that after the birth I would take a week’s break from “regularly scheduled programming,” but I can’t help myself. Plus, terse photo captions and notes typed with one hand don’t count. Right?
Tomorrow: prose content, in the form of a a guest post from the KIABIL (being the [...]

Yeah, they love me

8 Comments Published January 22nd, 2007 in Mostly a picture.

Sister lovin’ on brother, day three outside, day one at home.
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    From "Gay marriages in California surpass those in Massachusetts,", Jessica Garrison, on 7 Oct., 2008, at the Los Angeles Times.



    Data released Monday (6 Oct 08) by UCLA's Williams Institute found that an estimated 11, 000 same-sex couples were married in CA since June 17, when the court began to allow them. (Since May 2004, over 10,000 have married in Massachusetts.)



    Pastor Jim Garlow of Skyline Church in La Mesa, who has been rallying voters to pass the constitutional amendment, said: "The fact that there are big numbers doesn't change the reality that it is still bad for the country."



    Garlow, who along with hundreds of other Christians, is observing a fast until election day as a way to show his support for the proposed amendment, added: "There are enormous numbers of people doing cocaine right now. . . . Simply because large numbers of people are doing something does not make it right."
    "Foes of gay-marriage ban say poll shows Prop. 8 leading," by Jessica Garrison, 8 Oct., 2008, in the Los Angeles Times:
    The opposition has enjoyed a healthy lead in several surveys taken by polling organizations that do not have a stake in the campaign. But officials with the No on 8 campaign held a conference call with reporters Tuesday to announce that their own poll showed the measure would pass by four points. Opponents attributed the result to fewer television ads, which is, in turn, a result of the No on 8 campaign falling behind in fundraising.
    From Geoff Kors, Equality California, in an email to EQCA and No on 8 supporters, 7 Oct., 2008:
    Our worst nightmares are coming true.



    Today we learned of the massive $25.4 million our opponents have raised so far. They are using this war chest to broadcast lies: 24/7 and up and down the state of California.



    And the polls show the lies are working. We need your donation now.



    Yesterday’s CBS 51 poll shows that:



    “…likely California voters overall now favor passage of Proposition 8 by a five-point margin, 47 percent to 42 percent. Ironically, a CBS 5 poll eleven days prior found a five-point margin in favor of the measure's opponents.”



    People change their minds about Proposition 8 when they hear the lie that churches will lose their tax-free status if they won’t marry same-sex couples – EVEN THOUGH THIS IS NOT TRUE!



    So this is crunch time. With less than a month before the election, we must get on the air now to answer these lies and swing votes back to our side.



    And the ONLY way to do that it to raise more money. The generous $15.8 million that our supporters have given isn’t enough. Not when the other side has nearly $10 million more than we do and the fundraising gap is growing.


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    Ellen DeGeneres: "My Political Point... And I Do Have One," on 24 Sept., 2008 at her site.



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